It is not uncommon for people to have doubts about their partners’ loyalty. This can be due to a number of reasons. A lot of people just want to know the truth and this article will help you with that.
Just like any other relationship, there are certain questions that you should ask yourself, and others you should ask your partner; if you are suspicious of their loyalty. If these questions don’t yield any good convincing answers, it may be time for you to move on and find someone who deserves your trust and love.
Questions you should ask yourself, first:
Cheating is not a topic that should be taken lightly. It can have a significant impact on your life and the lives of those around you. If you suspect that your spouse is cheating, there are some questions to ask yourself that might give you a hint.
-Questions to ask yourself if you think they’re cheating:
- -Is he/she always away from home?
- -Does he/she seem to be hiding something?
- -Is there a change in routine or behavior? If yes, why?
- -Is there a new person in the house?
- -Do they spend less and less time with you?
- -Are they acting out of character in a negative way? For instance, showing less affection, displaying a lack of interest in engaging or interacting with you, withholding love and affection, etc.
- Do they always seem to be rushing and too busy when with you to get out of your sight and go somewhere private? For instance, a different room where they can text who they want freely and without interference.
Questions to ask your partner, if you think they’re cheating:
A cheating spouse is not always easy to spot. If you are suspicious about your spouse, you need to ask them some questions to find out if they are cheating. Here are a few questions to ask your spouse to see if they are cheating on you.
A lot of people are curious about their partners and want to know if they are cheating. So. there’s no need to feel bad if that’s your case. We are all humans and wanting reassurance or confirmation that the person you share a bed with is loyal and honest is not something extreme.
People in your situation might try to use various ways to find out, from the obvious: checking their phone and social media activity, to the more obscure: like using a hidden camera or a GPS tracker.
Obviously, we do not recommend you do something insane like this, but a good way to start is to ask them a few questions that can put your mind at ease if answered in the right way:
1) Why have you been spending more time away from home than usual?
2) Why has your phone been ringing more than usual? Or: why are you on your phone all the time?
3) Why do you seem overly attentive and conscious of your phone all the time? (If they never separate from it, never leave it behind; not even wash their hands or take a shower…)
4) Why is your behavior different when you are around your friends or coworkers?
5) I feel like there is something going on that I don’t know about, you want to tell me what it is?
6) Have you been talking to someone else or someone new?
7) Have you been spending time with someone else?
8) Do you have a new phone number or email account that I don’t know about?
9) Why have you changed the way you look, act, or dress? (Especially if you liked their previous style and look more).
10) Has something happened recently with your work, friends, family members, or while practicing your hobbies or sport?
11) Why are you cold with me? You seem to be withholding acts of affection and love, recently. Is there something on your mind?
All these questions obviously should be asked in a calm, nice, amicable way with a voice tone that suggests that you’re ready to help. If they’re asked by you with an angry face, shouting, or with aggressive body language, it could lead to a huge argument.
It could even suggest that you’re accusing your other half of something serious that they may not have done. So be very careful with the way you deliver these questions. Try not to create a big problem out of nothing or when it’s not even confirmed that they have done something wrong, yet.
The bottom line:
In the age of digital communication, it’s easy for a person to get away with cheating on their spouse. But it’s not always easy to know if your spouse is cheating on you.
You may be wondering what you can do about this dilemma. Well, the best way is to look for signs that might point toward your spouse’s infidelity. This can be tricky because it’s not always easy to know if your spouse is cheating. You might think that you can find out by checking their email or phone, but this can be risky and cause more problems. Especially, if they start thinking that you suspect them or don’t trust them.
Some people will genuinely get hurt by this type of behavior as they may not be doing anything wrong. Other people may be doing something and get upset that you suspect them so they may lie, while others might simply get angry because they don’t want to get caught.
Either way, it’s best to ask your partner the questions above and observe their behavior to get an answer before you try and dig deeper.