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How to make a woman feel safe and secure?

How to make a woman feel safe and secure?

The future can be uncertain and we are all worried about what it holds. But the future can also be a source of reassurance if we know that our loved ones will stay and keep us safe and secure.

And, that’s why it matters a lot for women when dating or building friendships to find people that they know are gonna provide them with a minimum of safety and security. Nobody wants to trust the wrong person or end up in a bad situation or betrayed. However, for women, this is can be taken to a completely different level and become a big factor when building any type of relationship.

We need a more nuanced approach that acknowledges that women are different from one another, and what makes one woman feel safe may not be enough for another.

However, to provide a minimum of security and safety and make a woman feel good enough about trusting you and letting you in her world, follow the steps below.

Few steps to make any woman feel safe and secure:

1. Let her make important decisions:

Making a woman feel safe and secure is not about making her feel like she is in a bubble. It is about making her feel like she has the power to make decisions for herself end trusting her judgment.

Women are often told to be careful, and they are given lots of advice on how to stay safe, but they are rarely given the power to make their own decisions. We need to teach women that it is okay for them to take risks and fail because those failures will teach them what they should do next time.

2. Treat her like an equal:

It is important to be mindful of the way that we communicate with women. This can be done by using a tone that is appropriate and friendly. Men’s bodies can naturally be bigger, more robust, and stronger than a woman’s bodies and that’s just how we are made. So no need to make an interaction intimidating by adding to that aspect a loud voice or aggressive body language.

We should avoid being confrontational or aggressive, even in arguments, as it can lead to feelings of insecurity. If an argument arises then it is better to try and deal with it using tools like communication, mindfulness, and a logical explanation of facts and opinions.

We should also avoid making assumptions about women’s knowledge, intelligence, or capabilities. We should give them the benefit of the doubt and not assume that they are ignorant about a topic when they actually could know more than us.

3. Be trustworthy and protective without taking away her independence:

One of the most important things to do is to be trustworthy. A woman needs to know that she can trust you when interacting with you.

She needs to know that you will never lie, play games, try to belittle her, or deceive her in any way. It’s also important for women to feel like they have control over their lives, so it’s important that you don’t take away her independence or try to change her into someone she is not.

Be honest with your intentions, be respectful, and be fair: these are the qualities that will make a woman feel safe and secure enough to give you a chance to become romantically involved with her.

Even if your goal is just to be a close friend maybe, then it is key that you have these qualities but without becoming an authoritative figure in her life either or dictating what she can or cannot do. Keep any negative or bad judgment or opinion about her behavior, or clothing to yourself.

Women are often more sensitive than men and they need to feel safe, secure, and respected. They need to know that the person they are with is trustworthy. That’s why it’s important to never lie and to be able to show your vulnerability when needed.

4. Give her financial security, and be financially reliable:

Financial security is an important aspect of a woman’s life. It is a sense of stability and security that comes with having the means to provide for oneself and one’s family and being well-sheltered. A woman feels at peace, more secure, and comfortable when surrounded by people that are smart enough to be able to never be with no financial income.

This is not to say that a woman will always be after your money: not at all. It is to say that a woman could have her own career, high-paying job, or even be the only heiress of a wealthy family but in the end, women naturally feel more secure being with a man that they know they can rely on, on that level. A smart woman that knows how unpredictable and unsure the future can be, will always feel better being with a man that is smart and will find a way to provide.

A man that can protect her from bad living conditions or misery in any scenario of life, is very valuable, respected, and appreciated. Even in life scenarios where money is not the issue a woman feels safer knowing she’s with a reliable man. For instance: in a scenario of life like a world war or zombie apocalypse, a woman would prefer to be with a man that has her best interest at heart and will protect her with his soul.

It can be difficult to feel financially secure in today’s society, but there are ways to make it easier. One way is through saving money, and the other is through investing money wisely so that it can grow over time.

5. Don’t give room to uncertainty about the future and always have a plan:

When in a relationship with a woman that you want to make feel safe with you, always reassure her about the future. You need to leave no room for uncertainty or doubts. Have your intentions always be clear and inform her of your short-term and long-term plans.

You need to provide her with a maximum amount of security and certainty regarding the future. This is one of the most important things that will make a woman trust you and believe that you’re true to her and to your own self.

The most important thing is to reassure her about the future. Let her know that you are there for her and that you have a plan for what happens next.

The bottom line:

It is important for women to feel safe and secure, but it can be difficult to know how to make them feel that way. Women need reassurance about the future. They want to know that they are going to be okay and that their children will be okay as well and that’s not just from a financial point of view.

Any woman has a right to feel safe and secure in her household and relationships, but she also has the right to live her life without being constantly monitored. So make sure you know how to make her feel safe without taking away her freedom and independence.

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