There’s nothing more beautiful than a woman who is confident in her own skin. If you want to help your wife feel more body confident, there are a few things you can do to support her.
5 rules to help your wife with body confidence:
1- Never make a negative comment:
First, avoid making negative comments about her appearance or even a comment that shows that you have a preference. This includes saying things like “you look so much better when you wear this type of makeup” or “I love your hair up like that.”
This could imply that you don’t like it much when she doesn’t do that specific thing and it could stay stuck in her mind. It’s no secret that women look for hidden meanings in everything. So every word you say may be overanalyzed and cooked in her brain for multiple different hidden clues.
That’s why you’re better off only making good comments about her physique, especially if you noticed that she had been unhappy about some aspect of her body. If she already has some type of insecurity developing, what you want to do is shake her out of it rather than nurture it more and let it consume her inside-out.
2- Giver her reasons to get all dolled up occasionally:
Second, have regular date nights where she can dress up and feel special. This will help her feel appreciated for her looks. When you give your wife a chance to look her absolute best and you give her the time and space to get ready the way she wants, it will boost her confidence without a doubt.
Whether it’s a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary, or just a regular date night, getting all dressed up can be a great boost to her confidence. And if you really want to make it special, you can even invite her out for a fancy dinner or something similar to give her an incentive to look her best. Just making that occasional effort can go a long way toward helping her feel good in her skin.
Just remember that confidence is something that comes from within, so try not to put too much pressure on her, if she’s not feeling like putting so much effort into her looks that day.
Simply give her enough time and privacy to get ready and no matter how she comes out looking, put on a big smile and pretend to be fascinated by the result. This means you’ll have to let her know that you think she’s beautiful no matter what.
3- Encourage change and be very open to different phases she goes through:
Also, be sure to compliment her often on how she looks; whether she’s wearing a new dress or she just has put on some lipgloss and is looking extra gorgeous that day.
By reminding your wife that you notice the little changes she makes and giving her a compliment without showing a preference or imposing your taste on her, you show her that you find her mesmerizing in all her forms.
She will surely appreciate the fact that you can find beauty in her different styles and looks, and she will feel encouraged to try more beauty trends as time passes. This can be a great way to break the routine and will be refreshing for you too to see and learn to love your wife through the different phases she has.
For instance, if your wife has always been skinny, but has put on some extra weight lately due to stress, pregnancy or other reasons then learn to enjoy this new version of her. Who knows maybe she’ll get back in shape in no time, once she notices the extra weight. So think of it as your chance to enjoy seeing her body under a different lens that could not last forever.
Another example is that you have to be accepting of her blonde hair era, brunette era, and even ginger hair era if she gives it a go. What do you lose by cheering her up and encouraging change anyway? Nothing, in fact, it’s a win-win situation as you also get to enjoy seeing your wife in different looks and styles through the years.
4- Make her feel like a beauty queen in public:
Another way to make your wife feel like a true beauty queen is by displaying affection in public in a respectful way and showing everyone that she’s your all.
Small gestures in public like kissing her hand with love, or doing her laces if they’re untied, will make her feel cherished and loved. You can also try complimenting her on her outfit loud enough in a group gathering or whispering something naughty in her ear. These compliments don’t have to be over-the-top, but they should make it clear that you think she’s beautiful.
Engaging in PDA can be a strong statement to the world about how much she means to you and how you only have eyes for her. Whether it’s holding hands while you’re out and about or giving her a quick kiss on the cheek, these small reminders of love will make her day, every time.
No matter what you do, make sure to let her know that you find her attractive. It’s important for your wife to hear this from you often. By regularly affirming your attraction to her, you’ll help boost her body confidence and make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world.
5- Never criticize or compare her to others:
If you’re wondering how you can help your wife feel better about her body, you can try to focus on her positive qualities. Never criticize her or compare her to other women.
Instead, let her know how much you appreciate her and mention all the things you love about her. And, try to stop her from comparing to unrealistic photoshopped women on social media if you catch her doing that. You can also encourage her to engage in healthy habits like exercising regularly and eating a balanced diet, by leading by example and doing these things yourself.
Let her know that she is the only one you want to be with and that you find her absolutely beautiful. If she ever expresses an insecurity, assure her that she is the only one who focuses on such ridiculous details and help snap her out of it.
Ultimately, your words and actions can make a big difference in how she perceives herself. So focus on speaking and acting in a way that will build her up, rather than tear her down.
By taking these steps, you can show your wife that you think she’s beautiful just the way she is.