Guys get crushes as much as girls do! They might think they’re a bit sleeker about it, but they’re not. Once you know what you’re looking for, it’s very easy to see if a guy is attracted to or interested in you.
Not to mention, women have a powerful gut feeling. So, if your intuition is telling you this guy is crushing on you, you’re probably right. If you want to make sure, here are 7 things guys do when they have a crush on you.
7 Things guys do when they have a crush:
1. He tries to impress you:
When a man has a crush, he will try to impress you in any way he can. He wants you to notice him and he also wants your attention and approval. So, he will dress nicely, wear an irresistible cologne, and look his best when he knows you’ll be there.
Additionally, he will find ways to show off his skills, talents, and brains. He wants you to know how interesting and how much of a catch he is. That way, you’ll be more inclined to talk to him or be more receptive to his advances.
2. He’s always looking your way:
You’ve caught him staring a few times for no reason and you think it’s a coincidence. Well, it’s not. If he has a crush, he won’t be able to get his eyes off of you, so you’ll often find him looking your way or staring at you.
If you happen to catch his eye or catch him staring, and he blushes a bit or smiles; it’s probably because he got butterflies in his stomach when you locked eyes.
3. He will act gentlemanly:
If a guy is very gentlemanly with you, it could mean he has a crush on you. Sometimes, it’s just how they were raised, but more often than not, it means they’re attracted to you.
He will open doors, pull chairs, walk you to your car, etc., and make sure you’re treated right by the people around you. If you’re in a group and he only does these things for you, he has a crush.
4. He will be generous:
When a guy has a crush, he will try to impress you in many different ways. Generosity is one of those ways! Now, keep in mind some guys are naturally givers, but you will notice a difference when his generosity is only aimed at you.
He will buy you drinks when you’re out with friends, make sure you have everything you need, give you snacks, get you lunch, buy you coffee, or even give you small gifts and treats. Guys that are interested in you will do this as they’re gathering the courage to ask you out if you’re available.
Of course, it will be harder for a specific guy you like to show interest in you if you already have 5 other admirers roaming around you and trying to serve you and meet your needs.
5. He will make you feel heard:
Sometimes, when you’re hanging out with a few people, it’s difficult to finish a story or get your point across without being interrupted. Sometimes it even feels like not everyone’s listening.
But if a guy has a crush on you, you will have his full attention whenever you speak and he will be fully engaged.
6. He will want to know how you’re doing by checking up on you often:
If a man has a crush on you, you’ll often be on his mind. So, he will want to know how you are doing and what you are up to all the time. Whether in person or digitally, he will reach out and ask how your day’s going or check up on you.
Now, of course it can get boring and annoying when the same guy texts “what you up to?” 30 times a guy. But, trust us sometimes this is the clumsy way that guys use to let us know they care about us.
They genuinely want you to be okay, so they will ask if you’ve eaten, remind you to drink your water, ask how you’re feeling, and more. If you’re having trouble, they will want to know more about it and also offer their help. Given the chance, they will go the extra mile of bringing you food if you haven’t eaten, giving you a ride, or helping you with school or work.
7. He will be appreciative of you:
Guys with a crush are easy to spot because they will be very appreciative of you. Now, they might not always express it to you directly, but they won’t be able to keep it to themselves. They will always have a compliment for you and they will notice the little things and details or changes in your appearance.
Additionally, they will praise you on a personal level. They are paying attention to you, so they will notice all your qualities and compliment you on each one of them. They want you to know they have you on their radar.
As you can see, it’s not difficult to tell when a guy has a crush on you. Now whether you choose to make a move on your crush or not is up to you. If you have a gut feeling that someone you like is into you too then it may be worth it.
Just pay close attention to the way he behaves and the things he says when he’s around you. You’ll see it very clearly!