You are 100% sure you love him, but does he love you? Men are not always easy to read, but when they’re in love, they will show it. Whether we want to accept it or not, we all wear a least a piece of our hearts in our sleeves. Without knowing it, we show a lot about our feelings in the way we behave.
So, if you want to make sure you’re both on the same page, you need to keep an eye out for the signs. Now, everyone’s different, so the signs won’t always be common. Such as giving compliments, making time for you, giving you special attention, etc.
Today, we will explore 5 different and odd signs that he loves you to help you determine if he’s truly in love with you too. Whenever you notice one of these odd signs, that’s a good indicator he’s all in!
5 Odd signs he’s in love with you:
1- He never gives a boring answer:
When a man is head-over-heels over you, he won’t only answer your every text and call, but he will also keep the conversation going. If your boyfriend never gives you a boring, one-word answer, that’s because he’s always matching your energy. If he senses you’re in a good mood, he will be playful and fun.
If he feels like you might be stressed, he will be insightful and understanding. If you have something serious to say, he will listen and give you deep replies. In other words, he’s in tune with you and you’ve developed a common language so you know how to talk to each other effortlessly.
2- He’s very comfortable discussing past relationships:
Whether his past relationships were good or bad, he will feel comfortable talking to you about them. Not only because he’s already detached from them, but also because he wants you to understand what he has learned.
He has let his guard down completely and he knows that talking about exes won’t be an issue. Needless to say, trust is a very important part of any relationship. This is one of the many signs that he trusts you, which could mean he sees a future with you and he’s taking your relationship seriously.
3- He loves to make fun of you:
Not in a mean way, but in an “I accept and love everything about you” kind of way. He’s so in love with you that he has no issue making fun of the things you may find embarrassing. It’s his way of telling you that those things are not an issue. If anything, they’re endearing.
He can’t help but bring up your quirks or make you laugh about the things that make you feel self-conscious. There’s a big difference between using your insecurities against you and normalizing them by using jokes and being playful. If he’s doing the latter, he’s very much in love.
4- He acts jealous:
Let’s say you’re watching The Witcher and Henry Cavil comes on the screen and you start losing your mind because he’s so hot. Your boyfriend might say things like “oh, no big deal, I’m better looking than him!” or “hey! I’m the real prize here”; this is him acting jealous without actually being jealous.
It’s not toxic or unhealthy, it’s funny and adorable. If he does this, it’s just to get you to compliment him and give him some love. Also, it means he likes you so much that he wishes he was the only man you find attractive. Perhaps because he feels like you’re the only woman he finds attractive? Could be!
5- He sees your problems as his own:
Last but not least, he sees your problems as his own, no matter how big or small they are. This is one of the biggest signs that he’s completely in love with you. You can’t find your keys? He’ll help you retrace your steps until you find them. If you lose your keys quite often, he might even get you a small tracker for them.
Are you having a big issue with your boss? He’ll listen to you and help you brainstorm solutions, and maybe even help you practice what to say. He’s 100% on your side and he always acts like you’re in this together, even if the issue you’re having is entirely your own.
Once you know what to look for, it’s very easy to tell if your boyfriend is as in love as you are. Even if he’s not particularly open with words, he will show you how in love he is without even saying it. Keep in mind that we all have different love languages so find what his love language by default is and appreciate it.
Of course, it’s better if he does, but he doesn’t have to say “I love you” 40 times a day for you to be aware of it. You just have to pay attention and let him know how special he makes you feel!